Have you ever felt like you aren't good enough, even after all your achievements? This type of feeling is referred to as imposter syndrome.
Imposter syndrome is belief that you are useless, unskilled, less efficient at work, incapable to achieve something or inferior to others, even after all your success and achievements.
It is very common to suffer from imposter syndrome.
Impacts of imposter syndrome:
Feeling like an imposter makes you suffer mentally and reduces you work efficiency.
Few situations where you can personally experience imposter syndrome are:
• Hesitating to present your ideas,
as you feel they are not good
enough.
• Not applying for internships or
jobs (even though your are
skilled enough)
• Taking on extra work to look
more capable in front of your
peers.
• Questioning your knowledge or
expertise in some or the other
field.
Managing imposter syndrome:
We need to meet new people with confidence. Here are few tips to manage impostor syndrome:
• Acknowledge your thoughts:
Try to understand how are you
feeling and why are you feeling
that way. This can help you find
a solution.
• Own your accomplishments:
Think of all the achievements
and skills you have and which
makes you unique. Take a note
of all the things you can do.
• Take a step back and ask to
yourself:
“Is this an opportunity
I want to act on?" This helps
identify what you actually need.
• Share your knowledge:
It
makes you feel more valuable.
Giving advice to your peers or
less experienced person. If you
feel like you have nothing to
share, refer to your list.
• Fake it, if you can't make it:
If
you feel less confident, try to
fake it. Acting confident for long
time can make this as your
habit.
• Meditation, exercise and
therapy:
This can help you get
rid of bad thoughts and to start
afresh.
Imposter syndrome is common thing in our life. What matters is - How you deal with that. There’s no shame in self-doubt – many people have it – and that crowd includes many famous people
“I still have a little impostor syndrome… It doesn’t go away, that feeling that you shouldn’t take me that seriously. What do I know? I share that with you because we all have doubts in our abilities, about our power and what that power is.“
~Michelle Obama
"Yes, you’re an impostor. So am I and so is everyone else. Superman still lives on Krypton and the rest of us are just doing our best.”
~Seth Godin
So, the next time yourself struggling with Imposter Syndrome in some area of your life, remember that you’re skilled enough – and you can overcome this.
Thank you for reading this and I hope you found this blog helpful.✨